Ramnika Gupta About Sex : Do men go weak in their knees when they see glamorous ? In her article in Vanity Fair, writer Nell Scovell admits that she preferred to walk out than continue working forDavid Letterman in a sexually-charged environment, “I had seen enough to know that I was not going to thrive professionally in that workplace. Sexual politics did play a major part.” Letterman, last year, admitted he slept with women who worked for him.
We’re also seeing a shift in the new paradigm towards sexual favouritism, while sexual rejection also has huge repercussions. Call it the new sexual politics at work. That’s something politician Ramnika Gupta, who recently shot to fame with her tell-all story in a magazine, is all too familiar with, “There was a time when women took their bodies along with the bio-data. Men gave muscle power and women gave their bodies. Once, a chief minister of Bihar (name withheld), asked me to meet him at 4 am. He then kissed and embraced me. Sexual trade-offs were common. But if you slept with one, didn’t mean you wanted to with everyone. When a former president (name withheld) of India called me to his suite, he turned up stark naked. He forced himself on me. I tried to complain, but I was told not to make a fuss.”
Interestingly, what makes powerful men do it is the fact they think they’re invincible. Says Suman Nalwa, ACP, Women’s Cell, Delhi Police, “They feel they can get away. The quid pro quo exists blatantly.”
Success sends testosterone spiralling up and loss brings levels down, as tested in athletes and chess champions. Says Dr Prakash Kothari, sexologist, “It’s rare to find a powerful man with no desire for sex. The more creative and powerful the man, the more his interest in sex.”
As the powerful seek to fulfil their sexual fantasy, they fall for the trap. Says psychiatrist Dr Avdesh Sharma, “Successful men don’t want romantic sex, they want power-driven sex. They want to feel in control. For men, it may be just an of their power.”
Whatever it is, aor the pursuit of pleasure or fantasy, the thrill and the chase certainly isn’t risking your all!
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